Last Sunday, I convinced Sebastian to go for yet another autumnal walk at Regent’s Park.
Given the fact that it’s November now, you might think it’s not earth-shattering precisely (and that I must be a bit bored to make a weekly highlight from this), but the keyword here is YET. At least, that’s what he underlined when I asked him to spend the day outdoors on Sunday morning. “Are we going out for YET another autumn walk?”, he muttered rolling his eyes. No need to say that I did the only sensible thing—I ignored his comment and cheerfully proceeded to unpack my new tweed Zara coat, wrapping myself for that ignominious walk. (And totally feeling like a winner by getting all those #blairwaldorfvibes. Thanks Zara. We have had our differences but you really amended things with this beauty.) But back to the topic…
I don’t blame him, though. As a matter of fact, I totally see his point.
In case you have been a social media user for some time now, you might have experienced a certain Déjà vu just before the summer death: you are still wearing sandals while enjoying the last few days of your vacation but suddenly, your Instagram feed is full of girls enjoying their first Pumpkin Spice Latte of the season. Temperatures are still over 30°C and scarves look like medieval torture instruments, but the Fall obsession is real. Every TV ad, internet pop-up, and tweet is solely focused on this.
By the time October arrives, you are bored of Autumn style—all the dull knitwear, tedious ochre and brownish tones, and Hypster hats. To sum up: you are sick and tired, praying for December to come so it’s over. Rest assured, you are not alone.
Disclaimer: The next confession might make you leave this blog and never come back, screaming in horror. Even so, I’m going to roll the dice and tell you my darkest secret. Ready? (Hitchcock music coming in three, two, one…)
Against all odds, I love autumn.
Horrific, right? I live in fear my family will find out, proceeding to disinherit me at once. Probably, after posting this, a raging mob will raid my apartment at midnight, armed with pitchforks and torchlights.
I know what you are thinking: “Allegra, dear. You started the post quite reasonably. And now you come up with this?” Well, I could apologize and blame all those films glorifying the autumnal season in New England. But instead, I prefer to tell you why despite all I wrote before, Autumn is still my favourite season (and yes, that’s a total cliché).
Reasons to love Fall
(even in the Instagram age)
01.
Autumn Picnics
Everyone enjoys going for a picnic in July, right? Well, here goes my second confession today: I HATE it. Not only do I get sunburns easily and hate mosquitoes with a passion (I consider them to be my personal nemesis), but also my thermoregulation is close to non-existent. In Autumn, on the other hand, you can sit on a blanket under a tree with your thermos flask full of tea and a book, enjoying the landscape.
02.
Outdoors Cinemas
I am rather peculiar about this too. I promise I am good person, though.
For most people, Summer is the outdoors season but very recently, I’ve enrolled an outdoors cinema where movies are shown from March to November. As a result, I’ve watched some of my favourite films in a garden, with a cozy blanket over my knees and a cup of tea in my hands. And let me tell you—there is something undeniably poetic in listening the words “Last night I dreamt I went to Manderly again” by an autumnal bonfire.
03.
Fashion
And I am not referring to earthy colours and knitwear only. September is the date time for New York, London, Milan and Paris Fashion Weeks. Pinterest blooms with thousands of seasonal pins, and the new season collections are finally out. Besides, you can use black monochrome outfits and darker lipstick again with zero judgement from other people (welcome home Rouge Noir! We missed you so much).
04.
Netflix pre-Halloween marathons
Many people might have their say about admitting this on a style blog, and it won’t make me look like the most sophisticated person ever but to be fair, I don’t consider myself very chic. So who cares, really? I LOVE horror movies and to me, October is the perfect time to plan endless home evenings, catching up with AHS or any of your favourite horror classics in Netflix. Yes, I just broke the fashion bloggers rule by saying that. Don’t worry, I will return my badge to the fashion police…
05.
Landscapes
I left my favourite part for the end, as I usually do. Please, if you can, take the chance to have a walk after work, or maybe just go in the weekend. Enjoy every single seasonal colour. There’s something about all those red, gold and rust tones that deserves to be contemplated once a year.
In the Instagram age, seasonal clichés have certainly doubled and at some point, we have all gone a bit extra with the number of seasonal pictures we over-share with our friends and family. However, our personal preferences and tastes (whether we’re speaking about autumn walks, that very-much-hyped beauty brand, or photos of cute kitties) should be respected at all times. At the end of the day, they are a part of our identity too.
Coat: Zara / Blouse: Zara (last season, similar here) / Headband: Zara
Bag: Metamorphose (vintage piece, similar style at Dune)
Skirt: H&M (sold out, alternative at & Other Stories)
Boots: Deichmann (alternative at Aldo)
Gorgeous coat! I must admit I’m not a fan of autumn and there’s no way in hell you’ll get me out for an autumn picnic, but what I do really like about it is that cosiness – sitting inside, listening to the rain with a cuppa and a book. I’m afraid I’d opt for summer any day though!
Oh, goodness! You just mentioned my favourite thing ever. I don’t even know how I forgot to include it on the post. 🌧📖🍵 Great to know another tea and book lover.
At the end of every season, I can’t wait for the next to come and wearing different clothes! I’m a big fan of autumn too, its not too cold yet, and the colours are absolutely beautiful.
Ellyn x | Life Of A Beauty Nerd
The autumn weather is the best possible, in my opinion: not too cold, not too hot. But I know what you mean about getting excited for new seasonal clothes.
Your writing is so captivating, please write books Allegra. I could read your style all day. Ok aside from fangirling on your blog, autumn is my favorite season too for a couple of reasons similar to yours. I’m a huge fan of the fashion and atmosphere. I think this time of the year is so freaking beautiful. It’s not too hot nor too cold for outdoor activities and the colors are so beautiful. I too like watching horror films in autumn it’s just part of the aesthetic. I will have to try out the picnic and outdoor movie idea, thanks for the suggestions!
Natonya | https://justnatonya.wordpress.com
Oh goodness! I am totally blushing now Natonya. It’s very nice to hear something enjoys reading about my shenanigans in here. We all need some encouranging once in a while.
And yes, the seasonal atmosphere is just the best – no matter what they say. C’mon, horror movies are life and they cannot change our minds.
Yes Allegra keep up the great work sis!! Autumn is just a mood in itself 🧡🍁🍂
Great post! I agree—there’s so much to love about autumn. Also, your fall looks are gorgeous! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Savannah! I am glad you enjoyed the post. Thanks for reading!
Your pictures are beautiful! Autumn is my favourite season and I’m sad every year that it passes, but that also means Christmas is coming! 🎄
Hi Zoe and thabk you for tour comment. Christmas are the only reason I can vaguely tolerate the end of autumn.
Yes!! Summer may be my favourite season but I adore fall as well. Fall fashion is 100% the best of the year ❤️
Summer is a lovely season, for sure. Too bad it’s just too hot to wear the best outfits.
I love autumn and I love all the photos you paired with this post. Stunning!
Thank you Poppy. Glad to have you here.
This is my first time reading your blog and I think you are a fantastic human. Your sarcastic humor really resonates with me. Lol. Fall is also my favorite season, and yes, I posted a pumpkin spice latte on Instagram. Haha.
Welcome to my place! It’s always great to hear from new readers (especially when they are so kind like you). And hey, I am guilty of the occasional Spice Latte post too. 😂
I look forward to further exploration of your blog ;-).
Thank you! Feel free to leave feedback or content suggestions any time.
Well, I love fall and most of these things you listed about it, but I don’t follow any style instagrammers so perhaps that helps. I think it’s hard to get too many fall leaves and cool temps.
Yes, being out of the #instagramgame definitely helps not to get sick of the whole thing. But it is hard to resist to the cozy aesthetics, isn’t it?
I love your outfit so much! Sometimes I wish I lived in England or somewhere cold just so I can dress like that, but then I remember I can’t even tolerate the coldest time in California >.<
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It must be hard to dress for the weather in California! What are the average temperatures in autumn over there?
Great post Allegra! No pitchforks here or anything like that. Autumn is a beautiful time of year. I still love summer the most though but you’re right about the mosquitos. I don’t miss them. 😁
Summer is in general a lovely season. It’s just that some of the most popular reasons people argue to like it do not resonante with me. Other than that, I do love a nice Summer night.